Is a girl liking Shonen Harem manga like Negima! and Love Hina, and especially He Is My Master bad?
I went online a long time ago to this essay-type thing that talked about manga and anime. It gave this great criticism of shojo manga. It said how the girl's in Japan are supposed to be afraid of the hero. And I find that's very true. Granted, my friend loves Chobits (and so do I) but I'm not sure if it's shojo or shonen. Anyway, I'm totally addicted to Negima!, and I like Love Hina, and I also like He Is My Master since the comedy is so much better. Granted He Is My Master's pretty pervy, and so was Negima!, but once you see about a dozen pairs of underwear, the shock value for the rest of the series (any series, in fact) is gone. I like shojo even if they're kinda generic, but I value the shonen for the comedic value. Is this weird?
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One thing I've noticed with anime though, is that certain shows are very likely to be different things to different people. Many US fans thought Project A-Ko was serious, when it is actually a comedy. Many people watching Love Hina think it is a romantic comedy when it is really basically a harem show. It's because of the culture divide and sexist stereotypes that people in the US see the cuteness of Love Hina, and think it is a show for girls when the intended audience in Japan is horny male teenagers.
Watch whatever you like, and don't be ashamed of it. Just also be sure to learn about what you are watching so you can view it from the proper perspective.
It's not a bad thing. Just don't expect it to happen in real life.
Anyway, yeah a lot of people will rag on your tastes but who cares. Just enjoy your anime. Keep your eyes open to different types of anime as well. It's not all fanservice and girl beatings you know!
And yes, I realize your question was not about porn. I'm just making a point; it doesn't matter what the subject matter is. As long as you're not hurting anybody else by your consumption of it, it's up to you to decide if you're okay with it. Don't rely on what someone else thinks is acceptable to define what you like.
What really caught me by surprise was when I read somewhere that one of my new favorite manga of all time, Inubaka: Crazy for Dogs was first published in a men's magazine. All along, I thought it was shojo with the cute dogs and the storyline(though Siguri is kind of odd). I didn't get what would make it fit into a men's mag. She wears shorts, but that's all. I wonder how long it was published in the mag. Hell, maybe it is shojo as I suspected, but at first was in the mag - or was edited? I don't know...all I know is that I don't cry easily like other girls, but every volume of Inubaka, I cry at least twice.
You will not be disappointed with the other Inubaka volumes. I've read the first 5 and they've been touching every time.