Women participating in the research rated men with stubble as tough, mature, aggressive, dominant and masculine
My boyfriend has the stubble and the neckbeard, however he really isn't aggressive or dominant. He's more opposite of that. However aggressive and dominant can be really good traits at times. ^_~
Just to ask, why does this have anything against Linux users? Linux nerds are the full bearded ones. The users tend to have mostly stubble as far as I have seen.
"At times" is the qualifier. Very specific times. Like sexy time, for example.
Ah. I did not see that The Whale Shark helped explain things to gomidog. Thank you.
But I prefer pouncing on each other equally often. If one person always takes the lead, it's boring!...But isn't it better to variously pounce and be pounced on? Who wants to be the uke all the time, yo?
Yes. No, it's not fun to be the uke. Switching things up = fun.
However aggressive and dominant can be really good traits at times. ^_~
Not really. Aggressive people are scary. Dominant people are bossy. Do not want!
edit: However, when I think about it, Rym is very competitive and alpha-dog-ish in his behavior.
Both aggressive and dominant are terms that could be applied to Rym. I have to agree with Ro and say that they are not always bad traits, one can be aggressive without being violent or negative, and dominant without demeaning or reducing others. While they need to be kept in check, they do have their positive aspects.
Not if they're doing it right.
But isn't it better to variously pounce and be pounced on? Who wants to be the uke all the time, yo?
I think switching it up is nice, but variety can come from other areas beyond the dom/sub roles.
Wow, I usually go from clean shaven [spelled correctly?] to getting onto a beard in about a week or so. That said, it is usually the main beard part that gets started before everything else.
But isn't it better to variously pounce and be pounced on? Who wants to be the uke all the time, yo?
Well, one party can certainly start off with a pounce, but sometimes, it's just hard to not wind up taking control of the situation. Logistics and all that. Yeah.
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I guess I'm not alone in my tastes. I still think I'm alone on the hairy guys though.
The combination of goatees and stubble, however, is awesome. Or so I'm told.
edit: However, when I think about it, Rym is very competitive and alpha-dog-ish in his behavior.