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Tonight on GeekNights, we consider the strange yet common case of very geeky/nerdy people with deep interests who, for whatever reason, seem to have zero connections outside of a tiny, single community related to said interests. They love games, but have never heard of PAX. They love anime, but don't know anyone else who does. They attend one fan convention, and don't know others exist anywhere. They're super into Advance Wars, but didn't know any sequels ever came out. But, before that, in... The Lounge... we consider a tale that hearkens back to The Bamboo, a new subway tunnel(pre-grime), and Google Maps on the iPhone.
Also, ConnectiCon 2013 Panel and Workshop submissions are live! And, we launched a new show! GeekNights Presents.
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Anyway you missed a more likely explanation for why people ask the forum they go to their question rather than the forum that is all about the subject. Basically people put more stock in information they receive from people they know from strangers, because they trust people they know more than people they don't know. It makes sense to a certain extent, but is clearly not always the best way to get the information you need.
Also the reason people don't visit keep up with all the things likely isn't tied to how fast they can read. In terms of community involvement, and even news feeds they keep up with, it's probably more of a Dunbar number situation. Where people are only able to manage only so many active relationships at once, and so it can be difficult for people to engage with or even just read a lot of websites simply because it can feel overwhelming.
One thing I've often wondered: so many forums are based on the same frameworks (phpbb, etc), is there any software that can aggregate conversations across a bunch of different forums and give me a single view of everything? Think Google Reader for forums and comments.
EDIT: You know what that is? It's Reddit X Vanilla + Federation. I could actually make that pretty easily.
My Wed night game group is not so convenient to go to anymore, but I'll be damned if I stop going. Everyone there is intelligent, connected, and to tie in another recent episode, very capable at playing games.
tldr: You could scrape existing forums or build an open protocol; scraping sounds easier but has inherent limitations.
On the topic of posting about things which are not specifically the purpose of the forum, I post about wrestling and racing here to interact with this community of people because I know you're all fairly smart and won't say terrible, racist things. Most pro wrestling boards I've seen are either racist, sexist, or worse than 4chan in their crazed small community memes, such that they are completely incomprehensible. Also, I would have never discovered V8 Supercars if Churba hadn't posted about them in my racing thread, so there's that, too.