What martial art should one learn?
Suppose one had an inclination to try a martial art. Suppose further that one is 6'2", 230 pounds, is over 40, has some kissin' cousin familiarity with Karate and Systema, and is primarily concerned with feeling cofident in one's ability to put an opponent down fast.
I'm leaning towards Krav Maga. Any thoughts?
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If you're willing to trade just a bit of effectiveness for being much more able to surpress people without actually hurting them then Hupkido is pretty nice. I'd recommend finding a non-Ji Han Jae school though because he added way to much mystical BS and showy kicks to and otherwise excellent martial art.
Far better to learn a martial art developed by organized crime. Sure, it might not be glamorous, but your average mafioso is going to be getting into fights in roughly the same kinds of conditions that you would as the potential victim of a crime. And both myself and your average criminal enforcer are reluctant to kill people when we don't have to. Now, some motivations for that might be similar (not wanting to get into more legal trouble than neccesary) and some might be different (human decency vs "Dead men don't pay protection) but the effect is the same.
Afterthought: That is mildly awesome on the scale of equilibriums action scenes.
I think it's pretty important to have some sort of randori-element. If trying out things on partners that are not compliant is not part of the training, it's fairly useless. Plus, it's a lot more interesting if you actually get to fight.
As for self defence:
1. stay-out-of-trouble-do
2. don't-get-cornered-do
3. use-your-head-do
Martial arts does not make you invincible. Your opponent has a gun - you lose. You're drunk, your opponent is not - you lose. Your opponent surprises you - you lose. You are vastly outnumbered - you lose. It's not like anyone will come charging at you with a spork from the front in a place where there's lots of space. People will only attack you when they're confident to win. And when they are, they are either right or idiots. And you don't need martial arts to defeat idiots.
I honestly think I would have a hard time not laughing if someone threatened me with a box cutter. Unless there's some sort of box cutter-fu, I just don't think that a box cutter would be very effective.
If you're just taking it for recreational reasons, then go right ahead. I just don't think it's going to help practicality wise.
Boxcutter injuries are not terribly deadly, but they're horribly disfiguring. The wide slashing motions coupled with the extremely sharp blade, when directed at the face (as almost all boxcutter attacks are), will almost invariably produce permanent scarring and prodigious amounts of blood. You could easily lose your nose or an eye.
Now, I've seen demonstrations by cops how a box cutter could be used offensively. However, I've never seen a box cutter case in which the box cutter wielder was a highly trained, 28 year old ex-military type in good physical condition. I have seen a lot of box cutter cases in which the wielder was a half-zombie crackhead. I'm pretty confident I could defeat such a wielder.
That stuff is lethal. Do you want to take someone down, or take their life?
I knew a guy who learned Go Ju ru (don't think that is spelled right). Sounded like a good one. Teaches you the hard and soft of martial arts: How to hurt them with hard parts of your body to soft parts of theirs. They also feel implementing other styles helps further their art. Went to their dojo one time and a guy who was a boxer was teaching them about how important stances were and why boxers use their stance.
I must be pretty good at it, then. The key is to cower to your opponent and let him/her walk all over to you. That's how I handle confrontations. Just ask my wife!