Alright, this is what is going on. Before I got no money what so ever so I had nothing to save, the little money I got from doing private tech support I used to buy geekery. Then I got an adult job, and now I have money to buy things. But naturally all of us have to save money to achieve things. That being a trip, the buying of a house or a car, buying stocks or starting a business; something.
That being said, you can't buy stuff with all of your money. No matter how much money you have, you need to keep yourself from buying all you want with that particular amount of money, and put some of it away, that involves a sacrifice.
The big question is, what things are ok to spend money on, and what things are not. How to identify what things are not just a fulfillment of you consumerism mind?
Since geekery involves passion for something (as Scott put it) you probably can spend an unreasonable amount of money on that. Now I'm paying all of my necessities, but so far no savings.
An example, I bought a PS3, that was absolutely necessary because I enjoy it a lot. On the other hand every time I go in the game store I buy a game, most of which I only play once. On that example things are purposely easy to identify, but that does not occur on regular basis.
What are you guy's thoughs on the saving money on the right things issue?
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Also, you usually spend as you earn, as soon as you get your paycheck, put 10%-20% in a bank account with no checks or debit card or online transfers, you'll probably eat like shit for 1 month and will barely be able to pay for rent probably, but you'll get used to it real soon and probably live just as comfortable as you do now.
Bored? draw, knit, sew, repair your household, learn a new skill, read a book, etc.
The key has been and always will be self-control, it's just how you get there.
MrRobot hit the nail on the head. Play what you have, sell it, buy super cheap used w/ the sales profit. The link I put up there says much of the same, but also goes into some very amateur statistics on how to create a chart that maps out your future purchase list, the average used price of each game, and their average review score. Bottom line is you pump out one metric that is a "bang for your buck" factor that tells you exactly what you should buy next. It will be the cheapest most enjoyable game you could possibly buy.
Also a good way to play genres you wouldn't otherwise be interested in.
If you are saving for retirement, you should get a 401k/IRA/whatever. They have things you can fill out to figure out how much you need to save now in order to have X money at the time you will retire. Just do what it says. It's best if your company has a 401k so that you can have the contribution automatically deducted from your paycheck pre-tax, hopefully with a match.
Savings is just math and will power. You need the math to calculate how much to save, and the willpower to put the money into the savings and not touch it unless there's a legitimate emergency (medical issue, car explodes can't get to work).
Of course, if you are like me then your car will break periodically and take exactly the amount of money in your Savings account to fix. That happened 3 times, so I stopped putting money in my Savings account. My car hasn't broken down ever since. Granted, I also bought a new (used) car since then, but whatever. That clearly proves that having money in my savings account is a catalyst for car disaster! (I'm living on student loans right now anyway, so I have no money to save.)
Say I make 5k a month (paychecks in Brazil are monthly), how much money is it okay to spend on a couch? Should I use the money destined to savings?
That goes on for other things. I just got a rack for the TV, but I just went for the cheapest one with wheels. I think I will probably spend more then I should on a couch, Specially because it's the place where I play video-games and watch movies and Anime. How much money should I save on this? Should I go all out and get the best I can, or should I buy the cheapest and make do?
Also, have you considered couch alternatives?
For all of my furniture here I got the cheapest thing I could get, minding that I would try to be transferred out as soon as possible, but it's been 8 months. =(