Also hearts are not exactly easy to come by, maybe she feels it could go to someone younger or more in need.
I still would encourage her to try it.
50/50 odds are not great, and doctors are usually the ones who determine if it is worth giving the patient a heart transplant. She may not have had that much of a choice, and she may just be putting a positive spin on it.
Ultimately, it is her choice. I'm sure she has gone through hell and back making that decision and coming to terms with it. Trying to understand the true reasoning and the factors that weighed into her decision will serve you well before you try to change her mind.
Enjoy the time you have. Remember that she is probably terrified (even if she doesn't show it), and she needs support and someone to lean on as much as you do. If the relationship gets deep, set up things that will console/remind you of the happy times after her death, like letters from her that you can open after. Don't join a cult to get over your grief when she's gone, but do take the time you need to recover.
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Ultimately, it is her choice. I'm sure she has gone through hell and back making that decision and coming to terms with it. Trying to understand the true reasoning and the factors that weighed into her decision will serve you well before you try to change her mind.
Enjoy the time you have. Remember that she is probably terrified (even if she doesn't show it), and she needs support and someone to lean on as much as you do. If the relationship gets deep, set up things that will console/remind you of the happy times after her death, like letters from her that you can open after. Don't join a cult to get over your grief when she's gone, but do take the time you need to recover.