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The womens, they have empathy for animals.
I'm probably going to be asking a girl out later this evening, so wish me luck.
Well, they don't want to hurt your feelings. Can't really blame them for having empathy.I have a friend who desperately needs a girlfriend, he's not a bad looking dude, a lot better than I am (although that isn't saying much) and yet finds excuses constantly to not ask girls out. The biggest one that peeves me off is his insistence that he's in the friend zone and that is call for giving up all hope, in my life time I've never seen or heard of this friend zone... nor understand it very well, but yeah, I guess what I'm trying to say is my friend is an idiot. No deep underlying meaning in this post.
You're a crook, Captain Starfox.
I meant straight forward as in if I'm constantly asking you out, but instead of just saying no, you give me some excuse. That keeps me hopeful, take away the hope, just say no, I don't like you like that and so be it.
What do you do if you feel like you're forcing conversation to someone you kind of like
the girl is to shy to start conversation
Plenty of times before people in my circle of friends have been really into eachother and have either broken up or stayed together, both resulting in virtually no change. Never has anything relationship-related ever caused a major disturbance in the group's dynamics. It makes me wonder what the difference is in my group versus others from all these horror stories I hear.
Why is "just friends" thought of as such a bad thing?
I asked her and got a no. Sad, but thats how things go sometimes.
(He is my first real boyfriend! I glad I waited for someone I hit it off with!)
Why is "just friends" thought of as such a bad thing?Well, even though you didn't he was obviously attracted to you in the kissy-face way and since you got along so well he probably had the whole "dream girl" thing most guys get when they find "that" girl (not "the one" or any of that BS, but you know what I mean).