No. I left the place as soon as I could. There were too many people there for me to really confront them, and I wasn't in any state to want to, either. I don't want to stay where I'm not welcome. The other people there said they cared for me and wanted me there, but it's just a little much for me right now, after everything...
Awww You've had a really tough few days, I'm sorry ;_;
They act all understanding and nice, and as soon as they think you can't hear them, they complain about how annoying it is you're there and make jokes about it. I could hear all of it. Ironically, this is the day after we had a conversation in which I noted that a lot of people think said person treats me badly and isn't a good or caring friend and how much I had faith that wasn't the case.
If I was not a good or caring friend, you would not have stayed a single freaking night at the apartment. I understand why you would want to stay out of your apartment for a few days. Was I slightly annoyed that you took up the majority of the bed and I did not sleep very much the night before? Yes. Did I say you were annoying? No. I would not say that. I was just explaining everything that had happened during the weekend while also telling stories about the random crazy stuff that happens at ECU. I am sorry if anything I said made you upset, as that was most definitely not my intention.
They act all understanding and nice, and as soon as they think you can't hear them, they complain about how annoying it is you're there and make jokes about it. I could hear all of it. Ironically, this is the day after we had a conversation in which I noted that a lot of people think said person treats me badly and isn't a good or caring friend and how much I had faith that wasn't the case.
If I was not a good or caring friend, you would not have stayed a single freaking night at the apartment. I understand why you would want to stay out of your apartment for a few days. Was I slightly annoyed that you took up the majority of the bed and I did not sleep very much the night before? Yes. Did I say you were annoying? No. I would not say that. I was just explaining everything that had happened during the weekend while also telling stories about the random crazy stuff that happens at ECU. I am sorry if anything I said made you upset, as that was most definitely not my intention.
Dude, I was curled up on the edge, I was hardly taking up the whole thing. I went out of my way NOT to. I could hear you. Maybe if what was said I had heard through the grapevine, I'd feel differently. But I heard you. Making jokes about me and how "oh haha I can't just get rid of her it's been three years of this crap, I could write a freaking book on it!" I had no intention of fighting with you here. I'm really hurt and needed somewhere to vent because I'm back in the empty house I didn't want to be stuck at in the first place and no one is here.
I had no intention of fighting with you here. I'm really hurt and needed somewhere to vent because I'm back in the empty house I didn't want to be stuck at in the first place and no one is here.
I had no intention of fighting with you here. I'm really hurt and needed somewhere to vent because I'm back in the empty house I didn't want to be stuck at in the first place and no one is here.
I'd advise both of you to take a moment and consider if this public thread, public forum, or indeed the internets, is the best place to deal with these issues. Otherwise, you may be inviting comments and advice and opinions you might not want to hear from people who you might not want to hear it from. For example: Stop the passive-aggressive bullshit with each other.
I'd advise both of you to take a moment and consider if this public thread, public forum, or indeed the internets, is the best place to deal with these issues. Otherwise, you may be inviting comments and advice and opinions you might not want to hear from people who you might not want to hear it from. For example: Stop the passive-aggressive bullshit with each other.
I could argue about that, but honestly the only reason I said something was because I feel pretty much the worst I've felt in a long, long time and no one is around and there's not a whole lot of people I feel like I can go to right now. I needed to vent and I was perhaps to rash in doing so; it was more about saying something to people who are impartial/not involved/probably typically wouldn't give that much attention and not at all about saying it where he could see it.
I saw it right when I went to this thread. I feel bad, but I feel like the only advice I can give is just to talk it out one to one and be super honest about how you feel. This goes for both of you. Skype, email, private thread, I don't care, but I think you guys will feel better without the spectators. I don't mind if you talk publicly, but I think it is easier to be frank when you are talking it out one to one. It sounds like you both have stuff to get off your respective chests.
Indeed. As the old saying goes, you don't wash your dirty laundry in the town square.
This.
Not to be insensitive or anything. Strained friendships are hard things to deal with. But when drama involves two forumites, it's more prudent to keep it private.
I would consider that a WIN since the lady came out unharmed, I feel bad for the people in the tornado's way though. Still that video made feel excited.
So, one of my school clubs is having drama before the school year even properly starts. The real problem is that this is going to come out as passive-aggressive bullshit at the first meeting and then all the interested freshmen will get scared away.
I was going to see The Pillows tonight, but I woke up this morning with a sore throat. Normally, I might of decided to go to the show anyway, but I need to make sure I can get better by Wednesday because I had plans to go up to San Francisco and visit friends.
Not likely. I can't spend my money on that, especially not this early into the school year. I knew they were playing in NYC, but it's a farther roadtrip from Rochester, NY to NYC, NY than you'd think. We're a big damn state.
Google says it's about the same distance as LA to SF. If I can do it, you can do it. Mike and Joe drove to Canada for Rammstein, iirc. Money is a different issue, though.
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*long-distance hugs*
I could hear you. Maybe if what was said I had heard through the grapevine, I'd feel differently. But I heard you. Making jokes about me and how "oh haha I can't just get rid of her it's been three years of this crap, I could write a freaking book on it!"
I had no intention of fighting with you here. I'm really hurt and needed somewhere to vent because I'm back in the empty house I didn't want to be stuck at in the first place and no one is here.
For example:
Stop the passive-aggressive bullshit with each other.
Not to be insensitive or anything. Strained friendships are hard things to deal with. But when drama involves two forumites, it's more prudent to keep it private.
So getting back to other fails, Adam hinted at this in another thread:
JESUS CHRIST IT'S A TORNADO GET IN THE CAR. Action starts around 5 minutes into the video.
I'm sure that those of you in tornado country think it's nothing, but we really, really, really, really don't get this shit in New York.
Now I have to find someone with a fax machine.
Hope things work out for you Anrild.
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THEY'RE WORTH IT
Also, I hate you so much. MISSING THE CHANCE TO SEE THE PILLOWS WHEN I DON'T EVEN HAVE ONE IS UNACCEPTABLE
They're playing NYC on Sunday, you should get some friends/RIT forumites and roadtrip-it if it's not sold out yet.
EDIT: Also, Rochester is about two more hours away than SF>LA, owing to our particularly crappy highways.
If you get to see the pillows live, I will slaughter all your children. ALL OF THEM.
the pillows are definitely in my top 5 bands EVER, so...I HAZ A JEALOUSY