I thought that when people found out me and Linkara were dating, some people would be jerks, but nope. Everyone is pretty cool. His fangirl fanbase is not cray.
Yesterday I was thinking of posting a short anecdote. There was a girl I worked with that I liked, but she moved away to grad school before I could do anything about it. Recently she moved back home, and despite the fact that we were both in our own happy relationships now, you can't stop those feels, man.
This morning I was given an entirely different reason to post in this thread. For completely unrelated (Where is this going - are we ready to start thinking of buying a house and start the next chapter of life?) reasons, my girlfriend and I broke up.
I thought that when people found out me and Linkara were dating, some people would be jerks, but nope. Everyone is pretty cool. His fangirl fanbase is not cray.
Also, things are going damn well.
Phew... When I saw you posting in here, I was certain it was something bad. Glad to hear awesomeness is happening.
That line rings kinda true after MAGFest. Except I might see her again. Just not very often. And I'm not sure if she could see me romantically or if her love for me is purely platonic. <_<
Feelings hurt. Definitely some crying on the drive back up from MAGFest. I know I'm screwed, because I'm having that whole reaction of "No, stop finding that girl attractive, it's not *insert person.* Wait, no, but...Crap."
Tip 1: Find a girl (or guy) who doesn't complain about you finding other girls (or guys) attractive. Bonus: Find one who will compare notes with you. Double Bonus: You both have the same tastes.
Seriously, let yourself find other people attractive. That's NOT a flaw. You can appreciate someone and still stick to the rules of whatever relationship you are in. Beating yourself up for it will only end in tears.
Well would anyone else agree that it's easy and normal to find other people attractive when you're In a relationship, but those you love look undeniably awesome... There's still hot people out there but they aren't your hot person.
It's ok to be like 'damn she fine' or 'omg look at his legs' and still be into your partner cuz, of course they are awesome.
It can definitely be a problem. Someone who is into different things (not even from a fetish standpoint but just preferred operating protocols even) will not make for great times usually, and if you aren't able to communicate or be flexible it's not gonna be a good time for anyone.
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Also, things are going damn well.
This morning I was given an entirely different reason to post in this thread. For completely unrelated (Where is this going - are we ready to start thinking of buying a house and start the next chapter of life?) reasons, my girlfriend and I broke up.
Feelings hurt. Definitely some crying on the drive back up from MAGFest. I know I'm screwed, because I'm having that whole reaction of "No, stop finding that girl attractive, it's not *insert person.* Wait, no, but...Crap."
Bonus: Find one who will compare notes with you.
Double Bonus: You both have the same tastes.
It's ok to be like 'damn she fine' or 'omg look at his legs' and still be into your partner cuz, of course they are awesome.
I was simply commenting that I know I actually care a lot about someone when I find myself instinctively stopping myself.
Friends:
1. Smart
2. Entertaining
3. Jovial
4. Not drama-prone
5. Generally awesome.
Dating/other related activities:
1. Smart
2. Entertaining
3. Jovial
4. Not drama-prone
5. Generally awesome
6. Willing to let me date/shag them
More of a problem than you'd think.
Story time! Story time!