Your relationship is at zero anyway if you haven't asked her/him out yet. You literally have nothing to lose. There is always the chance of rejection, but it's a small rejection and the only way to learn how to deal with it is to experience it. Fear of rejection is what kills the confidence needed to succeed at relationships.
Spent the night with my lady-friend. At this point we have mostly completely given in to acting like a couple. Once her personal issues are all dealt with, we plan on going official. But even without them being official, I'm happy where we are.
I've only ever dated one person ever, but we're still together. Does that make me good at relationships, or terrible at them. I can't tell.
Who knows, Relationships are an Art.
Spent the night with my lady-friend. At this point we have mostly completely given in to acting like a couple. Once her personal issues are all dealt with, we plan on going official. But even without them being official, I'm happy where we are.
Spent the night with my lady-friend. At this point we have mostly completely given in to acting like a couple. Once her personal issues are all dealt with, we plan on going official. But even without them being official, I'm happy where we are.
heh, Facebook official?
Yeah. We're also just not referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. In time, I'm sure.
We don't have to label it, but it's territorial. She wants to "own me" (like she already doesn't XD). The waiting is simply for her parents, because they need time to get used to the idea of me. They're pretty strict and nosy.
But no, I don't require labels. I just like things to be in a good, happy place, and right now they are, which is why I don't bother pressing the bf/gf thing.
Oh, that's all? Well yeah, I get that it's BDSM, jeez. I thought you just meant something else.
Actually, she admitted she was kinda turned on by the idea of light bondage. She's VERY dominant, and she said she would enjoy having the guy tied up and unable to do anything while she had her way with him.
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But no, I don't require labels. I just like things to be in a good, happy place, and right now they are, which is why I don't bother pressing the bf/gf thing.
Also, third base, roughly.
Also, before you look it up, I was being facetious. Unless you're into that, in which case, collar away, my friend.
Actually, she admitted she was kinda turned on by the idea of light bondage. She's VERY dominant, and she said she would enjoy having the guy tied up and unable to do anything while she had her way with him.
In over my head? Mebbeh a little.