You guys and gals shouldn't knock anything until you've tried it. I'm not going to elaborate on anything, but I've had some intense orgasms which have resulted from anal stimulation of various kinds. And I've given them too.
You guys and gals shouldn't knock anything until you've tried it. I'm not going to elaborate on anything, but I've had some intense orgasms which have resulted from anal stimulation of various kinds. And I've given them too.
Well, there is a reason for that because of the location of the prostate and how sensitive it is.
Man. reading forums backwards is fun because everyone seems like a crazy, which makes me feel less crazy.
Is it really that much of a problem to find a girl and get laid? I mean if casual sex is the objective then that goal can be met very easily in my experience. The real issue is finding anyone who is worth having further contact with. The whole reason I'm single is because sex isn't worth being around someone that I marginally hate. The sexual aspect of the relationship isn't all that interesting after a while anyways, I mean the most memorable sex I've had is memorable primarily for humor reasons. The difficulty is in finding someone who is capable of holding a conversation other than "Hi, you're cute and probably have money" in all the thousands of ways that girls say that. Even just finding a normal friend who isn't a brainless dolt is hard enough.
You guys and gals shouldn't knock anything until you've tried it. I'm not going to elaborate on anything, but I've had some intense orgasms which have resulted from anal stimulation of various kinds. And I've given them too.
Well, there is a reason for that because of the location of the prostate and now sensitive it is.
You guys and gals shouldn't knock anything until you've tried it. I'm not going to elaborate on anything, but I've had some intense orgasms which have resulted from anal stimulation of various kinds. And I've given them too.
Well, there is a reason for that because of the location of the prostate and now sensitive it is.
You don't have anal sex when there's poo in your ass just like you don't have oral sex when there's food in your mouth. If you always have poo in your ass then you need to get that fixed because you're unhealthy and gross.
Is that you, Dan Savage?
You'd be really surprised. There are a lot of nerves around that sphincter. Anal sex can produce a very intense orgasm. I'm not gonna elaborate on how I know that, but take my word for it.
You guys and gals shouldn't knock anything until you've tried it. I'm not going to elaborate on anything, but I've had some intense orgasms which have resulted from anal stimulation of various kinds. And I've given them too.
Eh, it's just fresh in my mind since he said almost exactly the same thing, verbatim, to someone who had a problem in that area, on a recent episode, and I've been catching up with the savage love cast over the last few days.
Everyone would be a lot happier and smarter if they followed the Savage Way.
Not necessarily. His advice isn't perfect for everyone, because he himself is not perfect. But, He does give good advice, and he's good at giving that gentle kind of tough love that some people tend to need.
I think the most important thing Dan gives people with his advice is having a realistic perception of relationships; a good majority of his column and podcast are really just giving people reality checks.
I think the most important thing Dan gives people with his advice is having a realistic perception of relationships; a good majority of his column and podcast are really just giving people reality checks.
I concur with this point. As Churba said, his relationship advice doesn't apply to everyone - he's biased away from monogamy, which does genuinely work for many people - but his dishes of cold hard reality are the best advice you can give. That, and he has a generally accepting attitude towards people's various sexual predilections and encourages open, honest communication with partners.
Dan's track record for discouraging monogamy is really trumped up beyond what it really is. He actively discourages polyamory (although subtly) and really he only promotes it as a solution to an otherwise unsolvable problem like sexless relationships where for whatever reason splitting up isn't on the table.
I concur with this point. As Churba said, his relationship advice doesn't apply to everyone - he's biased away from monogamy, which does genuinely work for many people - but his dishes of cold hard reality are the best advice you can give. That, and he has a generally accepting attitude towards people's various sexual predilections and encourages open, honest communication with partners.
The GGG principle is the best one out there.
I would say he's kinda gentle, honestly. He's dishing up reality, but he's as gentle as he can be about it, without lying or mincing words.
Dan's track record for discouraging monogamy is really trumped up beyond what it really is.
Really? I definitely recall him stating multiple times that he is not a fan of monogamy.
He actively discourages polyamory
I agree with him here. Most people are way too insecure to even handle a monogamous relationship. "Relationship broken? Add more people!" is a terrible solution.
I agree with him here. Most people are way too insecure to even handle a monogamous relationship. "Relationship broken? Add more people!" is a terrible solution.
Dan's track record for discouraging monogamy is really trumped up beyond what it really is.
Really? I definitely recall him stating multiple times that he is not a fan of monogamy
How do you figure that when he's married with a kid and entirely monogamous? He's merely honest about monogamy being purely a man-made social convention and not something we as humans are naturally inclined to do and rather have to work hard to accomplish it.
How do you figure that when he's married with a kid and entirely monogamous?
Hey, I'm not the guy who said it. He has, in the space of one paragraph, talked about how he's not a fan of monogamy and how he's also very happy in his monogamous relationship. I don't see it as being contradictory at all; one can dislike the way a thing works but still be happy within it. I dislike how the American government functions, but I also know that I'm far better off than a lot of people in a lot of other places. Same principle, I think.
The key seems to be going with something more along the lines of "Relationship doing just fine? Spread the love!" ;^)
Well, you also have to be honest about what you can handle. I am actually totally socially satisfied right now and have no desire to add new relationships, though I could certainly use more sex. It's a dilemma that I've been turning over in my head a lot.
Well, you also have to be honest about what you can handle. I am actually totally socially satisfied right now and have no desire to add new relationships, though I could certainly use more sex. It's a dilemma that I've been turning over in my head a lot.
Well, Open does not necessarily mean Poly. My girlfriend and I have an open relationship, but we're under no misapprehension that it's acceptable to have a romantic relationship with anyone else. We have other sexual partners, but we love each other, and we are emotionally monogamous.
Well, you also have to be honest about what you can handle. I am actually totally socially satisfied right now and have no desire to add new relationships, though I could certainly use more sex. It's a dilemma that I've been turning over in my head a lot.
We gay fellows never have to say this. I'm sorry about my bragging.
Oh, I know. Right now, I'm emotionally satisfied. It's just the physical satisfaction that's a little lacking. I also tend to prefer a degree of emotional connection in my physicality, so I wind up not meeting a lot of viable partners for anything. I think I've met one girl in the last six months that is even slightly intriguing to me, and then, only just.
But I don't feel like it's a problem, either. As I said, I'm satisfied. The issue arises when one is not satisfied, and is embroiled in circumstances that inhibit their ability to attain satisfaction.
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Is it really that much of a problem to find a girl and get laid? I mean if casual sex is the objective then that goal can be met very easily in my experience. The real issue is finding anyone who is worth having further contact with. The whole reason I'm single is because sex isn't worth being around someone that I marginally hate. The sexual aspect of the relationship isn't all that interesting after a while anyways, I mean the most memorable sex I've had is memorable primarily for humor reasons. The difficulty is in finding someone who is capable of holding a conversation other than "Hi, you're cute and probably have money" in all the thousands of ways that girls say that. Even just finding a normal friend who isn't a brainless dolt is hard enough.
And also because he can do this!
The GGG principle is the best one out there.
if u kno wat i mean
But I don't feel like it's a problem, either. As I said, I'm satisfied. The issue arises when one is not satisfied, and is embroiled in circumstances that inhibit their ability to attain satisfaction. I think I would break you.