Or we could just accept that there is a large amount of variation in sexuality and that we don't need to pigeonhole people into a specific classification.
Yeah, sure, I agree, tons of grey area in there. I guess the self classified lesbians I hang out with are the type who would not have voluntary sex with dudes under most any circumstance, but the bisexual girls I know would, and that's where they draw that line in explaining. Categorization of any gender thing is pretty difficult, hence people's different definitions.
Yes, it is. No, she's still a lesbian. Which means she doesn't really like to reciprocate, but one-sided sex is still better than no sex at all.
"One-sided sex" just sounded very problematic at first glace, and fraught with moral complications. I read it as "yeah, we slept together, but she was uncomfortable and ill-at-ease the whole time." So I was like "hmmm." Really, as long as everyone is happy, have fun.
What Sail said. Also, Linkigi can fuck whoever he wants. If she weren't comfortable with it, she wouldn't be letting him do it, and he said that she enjoyed it, just not reciprocating. Kind of surprised to see that comment come from you, gomidog.
Some college girls get pressured into doing all sorts of stuff that they hate and regret. Not to say that that is this case, as Linkigi is a nice, upstanding fellow, but "she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to" is totally a bogus argument.
Let's not get the discussions too mixed up here. Emily makes an excellent point. At the same time, but I'd bet that Linkigi's cool. He don't coearse and he don't fuck with drugged up low self-esteem engines/other such women who might be uncomfortable with casual sex.
Some college girls get pressured into doing all sorts of stuff that they hate and regret.
Sure, but given the context, I don't really feel that this is relevant. By "If she weren't comfortable with it" I was referring to the fact that Linkigi had already said that she was making it clear she was enjoying it. The "one side" (that is physically enjoying it) in the "one-sided sex" is her, not him, so the potential moral issues are made irrelevant.
Really, as long as everyone is happy, have fun.
This is the point I was trying (in an admittedly roundabout way) to make.
Hey! You can't just leave an emo photograph in here! That's whiney even for the dating thread! We demand a healthy mixture of catharsis, hope, and hilarity!
On a more serious note, if you're feeling blue WUB, feel free to send a message. Same goes for the rest of you guys. I may not be able to help too much, but I'll probably know that feel.
Oh, I was just making a joke based on all those otaku date night pics. I was rolling a cigarette and watching some Initial D, and I had a funny idea.
I have too many other things on my mind to worry about ladies right now. And even if I didn't, I'm still feeling pretty good about my prospects lately; I'm blue for other reasons. To paraphrase the great warrior poet Jay-Z, "I'm possessed of five score problems less one; but, of them, a vexatious woman is none."
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Also, "I'm so good at this my lesbian roommate is into it" is kind of a boss pick-up line.
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Really, as long as everyone is happy, have fun. Some college girls get pressured into doing all sorts of stuff that they hate and regret. Not to say that that is this case, as Linkigi is a nice, upstanding fellow, but "she wouldn't do it if she didn't want to" is totally a bogus argument.
...And neither should you.
Thus continues my streak. :P
On a more serious note, if you're feeling blue WUB, feel free to send a message. Same goes for the rest of you guys. I may not be able to help too much, but I'll probably know that feel.
I have too many other things on my mind to worry about ladies right now. And even if I didn't, I'm still feeling pretty good about my prospects lately; I'm blue for other reasons. To paraphrase the great warrior poet Jay-Z, "I'm possessed of five score problems less one; but, of them, a vexatious woman is none."