The greatest realization that I've made in my life, and the one that has helped the most in making me who I am today (which is much happier than my 13-20 year old self), is that you can re-spec yourself any time you like. Obviously you can't shift your base stats (you have a body that is only so tall and you're limited on your feature set), but if you really, REALLY want to change, you can.
Jesus Christ! Apparently, I have a first date this Sunday, which I haven't had in AGES. I'm freakin' out, man! It's way more nerve-racking than my last job interview! Do you guys have any advice for this?
Not sure if one of the girls I'm working with likes me, or if she just is friendly...Small hints have been dropped for the past two weeks, but I have a personal history of reading into things too much...
Not sure if one of the girls I'm working with likes me, or if she just is friendly...Small hints have been dropped for the past two weeks, but I have a personal history of reading into things too much...
Ask her out to something small, like for a coffee or something, and see how that goes. Be proactive, the worst she could say is no.
Not sure if one of the girls I'm working with likes me, or if she just is friendly...Small hints have been dropped for the past two weeks, but I have a personal history of reading into things too much...
Ask her out to something small, like for a coffee or something, and see how that goes. Be proactive, the worst she could say is no.
Meh. I won't see her again after Saturday, so I'm not too worried about it.
I hate it when romance goes sour and you can't avoid the other party. The only ways I know to cope with rejection and disappointment are friendliness and avoidance. The person I'm dealing with refuses to be friendly, and I keep ending up in a room with her. What do?
I really don't care, I was expecting her to flake. Frankly I've got too much going on and I'm too successful in life to sit moping in a bar when a girl stands me up for a first date.
I do not understand stand-ups. Why would you say you are going to show up and then not show up? Just say no! If you already said yes, it's not like the lines of communication are shut. Call, text, or somehow message that you are calling it off. Someone who fails at this simple thing is someone you don't even want to know, let alone date, so at least it is a great self-selecting filter.
I do not understand stand-ups. Why would you say you are going to show up and then not show up? Just say no! If you already said yes, it's not like the lines of communication are shut. Call, text, or somehow message that you are calling it off. Someone who fails at this simple thing is someone you don't even want to know, let alone date, so at least it is a great self-selecting filter.
Not everyone is a good person though, Scott. Some people are wimps, or just don't want to deal with the consequences of their actions.
I do not understand stand-ups. Why would you say you are going to show up and then not show up? Just say no! If you already said yes, it's not like the lines of communication are shut. Call, text, or somehow message that you are calling it off. Someone who fails at this simple thing is someone you don't even want to know, let alone date, so at least it is a great self-selecting filter.
Not everyone is a good person though, Scott. Some people are wimps, or just don't want to deal with the consequences of their actions.
Or are socially awkward or have anxiety issues... It's not always malice or poor character sometimes it's a valid psychological issue they've got. Which still sucks.
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