I've found you need a few months of distance before rebuilding a friendship after a relationship.
I was lucky in that respect. My girlfriend broke up with me before going on a semester abroad in England, then finishing up her bachlors at SUNY, so she wasn't really around when I would've been vulnerable to being an asshole.
Well, that opens up a whole philosophical pile of worms. If I brain control you so thoroughly that you think the idea was yours, and you go kill the president, who's responsible?
So one of the girls I've been talking to, who will henceforth be known as Violin Girl came over tonight for a group potluck. She loved the food I cooked and my friends were nice enough to set it up so that she sat next to me for the entire evening. We then decided to watch the Thing, which I was pretty stoked about for obvious reasons, but she had to leave.
She wants to watch more horror movies, though, but I need to start getting more 1 on 1 interaction time with her if I want this to progress.
Honestly, the problem right now with SWG is that I literally just want to hold her hand and maybe cuddle and listen to records. I have this awful sort of like grade-school limerence that won't fucking die and it's killing me because she's hard to reach. :$
A pretty, geeky lady wants to smoke up and watch Oldboy with me. I am so excited that I have to tell the internet.
...Are you both 16? Because that sounds like something my high school brother would think was awesome.
Damn, woman, you negative. I get to spend time with somebody smart and attractive and watch a movie I've been meaning to see for a while. If enjoying that makes me 16 then fuck it, I'll stay in highschool and have interesting conversations with my pothead loser friends over good movies 'til I die.
Honestly, the problem right now with SWG is that I literally just want to hold her hand and maybe cuddle and listen to records. I have this awful sort of like grade-school limerence that won't fucking die and it's killing me because she's hard to reach. :$
Honestly, the problem right now with SWG is that I literally just want to hold her hand and maybe cuddle and listen to records. I have this awful sort of like grade-school limerence that won't fucking die and it's killing me because she's hard to reach. :$
I don't see a problem here.
It's an Infinite Love Without Fulfillment type of deal.
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Also, Facebook Girl and I are back in touch. We're writing letters back and forth. And getting tattoos together in winter.
Because that would both work and be really awful simultaneously.
I named my penis the Sun Crusher. Or, if she's into LOTR (SWG really is), Glamdring. My balls are the palantíri.
She wants to watch more horror movies, though, but I need to start getting more 1 on 1 interaction time with her if I want this to progress.