Apparently Grizzly Bear Girl just, in the words of a good friend with a similar encounter, "can never bring herself to reject anyone." So she's just throwing ALL the mixed messages, but she has a good reason--if I'm any good at reading people (one of the very few talents of mine that I do not doubt), she's really, really depressed.
I dunno, maybe one day she'll work something out and then we'll work something out, but until then I'm cool just havin' moar frandsz~
I am very much in support of the super optimistic new turn this thread has been taking.
Quite.
Let me say this: most of my non-internet friends are women. My best friend is a woman who I originally asked out, only to find out that she was engaged. Did I stop wanting to know her? Fuck. No. She's awesome! That's why I asked her out in the first place!
We have achieved boyfriend/girlfriend status. Which doesn't actually change anything for us, just makes introductions easier.
Yeah, this is the reason why two of my last three relationships became "official". In one, I introduced Pola as in "Yeah, my girlfriend and I are just hanging out here..." In the other, I asked Juliane "Is it okay that I just call you my girlfriend? It's a lot less strange to say "I'm going to the hospital to visit my girlfriend" than it is to say "I'm going to the hospital to visit a friend.""
So here is the thing. I meet a cute German chick (Tanya) while in line to watch Skyfall and we hit it off nicely. However she was on a date and I felt bad for the dude, since we were talking lot during their date, and he seemed like he was really trying to super hard to impressed her. She knows Spanish, so we even talked in Spanish in front of him, I think he understood a little. Anyhow, when we got to the movies, I decided to just go away and let the dude do his "thing" (whatever that would be). Skyfall was awesome. Anyhow, after the movie I saw her waiting for him to come out of the restroom, she seemed bored, but the gentleman part of me though do not ask for her number gave the dude a chance with her. But now I wonder, if I should have, because she was really cute. If a situation like this happens again. what is the honorable thing to do?
A simple, honest, non-leery "nice rack" has always gone over well with me.
See? It's easy and appreciated. It will show that you're able to compliment someone on their appearance without being overly attached to said appearance.
Message cool girl, "Let's get dinner at 7." She responds that she has a party to go to and can't, simultaneously tweeting "BACK UP OFF MY DICK DUDE. ihatedates."
I only sent one text.
I think I'm heavily for that "Unwholesome and 100% emotionally-vacant casual sex" tip now. Attempting to forge lasting connections is a waste of time.
Message cool girl, "Let's get dinner at 7." She responds that she has a party to go to and can't, simultaneously tweeting "BACK UP OFF MY DICK DUDE. ihatedates."
Message cool girl, "Let's get dinner at 7." She responds that she has a party to go to and can't, simultaneously tweeting "BACK UP OFF MY DICK DUDE. ihatedates."
Whoaaa, not so cool.
Oh, in-fucking-deed. She's also friends with a bunch of my friends, so that shit is a problem in a more broad respect.
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I dunno, maybe one day she'll work something out and then we'll work something out, but until then I'm cool just havin' moar frandsz~
ALSO STAR WARS GIRL IS BACK IN THE MIX
Game on, internet.
I meet a cute German chick (Tanya) while in line to watch Skyfall and we hit it off nicely. However she was on a date and I felt bad for the dude, since we were talking lot during their date, and he seemed like he was really trying to super hard to impressed her.
She knows Spanish, so we even talked in Spanish in front of him, I think he understood a little.
Anyhow, when we got to the movies, I decided to just go away and let the dude do his "thing" (whatever that would be). Skyfall was awesome.
Anyhow, after the movie I saw her waiting for him to come out of the restroom, she seemed bored, but the gentleman part of me though do not ask for her number gave the dude a chance with her.
But now I wonder, if I should have, because she was really cute.
If a situation like this happens again. what is the honorable thing to do?
My wife said that women like those sorts of compliments.
"Hey, your tits are fantastic today."
I only sent one text.
I think I'm heavily for that "Unwholesome and 100% emotionally-vacant casual sex" tip now. Attempting to forge lasting connections is a waste of time.