Hmmm. I think the first movie Nuri and I went to see together was...Inglourious Basterds?
I'll have to go with that because I have no fucking clue. We live in the present! And that's totally a valid excuse for not remembering firsts and anniversaries.
Who cares? It's an arbitrary term that shouldn't have the amount of weight it's given. :P
Hang out with people. Hang out with people you're attracted to. Have a good time. Focus on that. If I could remember my own advice half the time, I'm pretty sure I'd have had a way more successful time "dating" in my life.
Yeah, I'll be honest, I love talking and cuddling and kissing and sexing and all, but I hate dates. Generally I avoid saying the word unless fruit is involved.
Considering I've kept the "What movie have you seen recently?" updated with pretty much every movie I've watched over the last however many years, and also this dating thread with my dating too, I could probably discover which was the first movie Juliane and I saw together.
When Katie and I started getting together, it was mostly around going to concerts. If I had to guess when we first went to a movie was, I would say it was The Muppets. Honestly, we've only gone to the movies maybe 3 times in the 2 years we've been together, it's just not our thing.
I really like "dates," but that's mainly because I really like chilling in coffeeshops and eating in restaurants and those are traditional "date" activities.
It's difficult because the type of girl I like usually equates "Let's get dinner!" or "Let's get coffee!" to "I want serious romantic things," when what I really mean is, "I want food and drink and good conversation."
I really like "dates," but that's mainly because I really like chilling in coffeeshops and eating in restaurants and those are traditional "date" activities.
It's difficult because the type of girl I like usually equates "Let's get dinner!" or "Let's get coffee!" to "I want serious romantic things," when what I really mean is, "I want food and drink and good conversation."
I really like "dates," but that's mainly because I really like chilling in coffeeshops and eating in restaurants and those are traditional "date" activities.
It's difficult because the type of girl I like usually equates "Let's get dinner!" or "Let's get coffee!" to "I want serious romantic things," when what I really mean is, "I want food and drink and good conversation."
There's a cute barista (colleague now, I guess?) that's into me. We've been flirting for a while, but I haven't been in her shop regularly for a month because I've been getting started at my own coffeehouse. Now that I've settled in, I'm hanging out at her shop again, doing art stuff.
Today, she was looking at some of the Bristol board comics I'm working on, and complimenting them. She went to open up my sketchbook, at which point I said, "please don't open my sketchbook without asking" in the tiniest voice imaginable, to which she replied "Really?"
I replied "yes" in an even tinier voice, got my shit together, and asked her if she wanted to get drinks sometime. She said "Oh! Okay, okay. Maybe. We'll talk about this later." I kept drawing/waiting for 1.5hrs, but she made herself distant and scarce, so I bounced.
I met a really cute and nerdy chick in a baby shower last Monday, and then I found out she has a boyfriend. Why do all the cute and nerdy girls have boyfriends? :O
I met a really cute and nerdy chick in a baby shower last Monday, and then I found out she has a boyfriend. Why do all the cute and nerdy girls have boyfriends? :O
Having a boyfriend is not necessarily a block to dating her... it's just very LIKELY to be a block to dating her. Cute and nerdy chicks are more likely to be polyamorous than other women, statistically speaking.
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First Movie: Hugo
Most memorable line: "I'd invite you back to my place, but my Mom is sleeping on my couch."
Hang out with people. Hang out with people you're attracted to. Have a good time. Focus on that. If I could remember my own advice half the time, I'm pretty sure I'd have had a way more successful time "dating" in my life.
It's difficult because the type of girl I like usually equates "Let's get dinner!" or "Let's get coffee!" to "I want serious romantic things," when what I really mean is, "I want food and drink and good conversation."
Today, she was looking at some of the Bristol board comics I'm working on, and complimenting them. She went to open up my sketchbook, at which point I said, "please don't open my sketchbook without asking" in the tiniest voice imaginable, to which she replied "Really?"
I replied "yes" in an even tinier voice, got my shit together, and asked her if she wanted to get drinks sometime. She said "Oh! Okay, okay. Maybe. We'll talk about this later." I kept drawing/waiting for 1.5hrs, but she made herself distant and scarce, so I bounced.
Why do all the cute and nerdy girls have boyfriends? :O