Don't forget that you are the new kid in town. Ladies love the new kid.
This is a peculiar and oddly valid strategy. Works for any gender/orientation/whatever, IMO. There's just the obvious danger of hooking up with the crazies before you realize they are the crazies.
I didn't tell her I like her today, but we literally spent 12 full hours at the Magic Kingdom together geeking out about Disney (she finished Disney quotes for me, it was awesome), eating at Be Our Guest (which was great), adventuring with Pirates, and reciting all of the dialog in the Haunted Mansion with each other. So yeah, pretty good day.
I didn't tell her I like her today, but we literally spent 12 full hours at the Magic Kingdom together geeking out about Disney (she finished Disney quotes for me, it was awesome), eating at Be Our Guest (which was great), adventuring with Pirates, and reciting all of the dialog in the Haunted Mansion with each other. So yeah, pretty good day.
It's simple, and complicated at the same time but from my failed experiences -
If you had romantic feelings the first 2 or 3 times you met her and the thought crosses your mind that you would like to be in a relationship higher tier than friends.
As Nike would have me say "JUST DO IT".
If you have just a friends relationship keep it at that. However if you have reached this point it is clear you have romantic feelings.
If you lose her friendship over this then she is immature, it's no biggie, just forget about her.
But don't be the first to cop a feel, because that's forceful and rude. Ask permission to grab the bush.
How do you think this works? They both awkwardly inhabit each others space and then somebody else comes in and makes the first move; she goes to this third party and the first person is left in the friend zone to be invited to the wedding 2 years later?
I'd say if you are kissing in a way that leads you to think that's appropriate, she's not going to hold against you a bit of over the clothes feel up. You'll know at that point whether it's warranted.
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If you had romantic feelings the first 2 or 3 times you met her and the thought crosses your mind that you would like to be in a relationship higher tier than friends.
As Nike would have me say "JUST DO IT".
If you have just a friends relationship keep it at that. However if you have reached this point it is clear you have romantic feelings.
If you lose her friendship over this then she is immature, it's no biggie, just forget about her.
A bird in the hand is better than 2 in the bush.
They both awkwardly inhabit each others space and then somebody else comes in and makes the first move; she goes to this third party and the first person is left in the friend zone to be invited to the wedding 2 years later?
Gets 'em every* time.
*YMMV.
I was looking for a flamboyant actual chicken, but googling "gay chicken", this was the first thing to show up so I went with it instead.